trying to get more pussy

p: primary
m: me

m: you are like a pimp
ho ing me out to get bitches

p: hey if you get some head its a win haha


pass up on swap

four people…two guys two girls

girl on girl session

primary asks dude if he wanted to swap

guy says i dont know

ah next time just girl on girl this time

i like it rough…

i like it rough…..

sigh do these women realize its a nail salon not a massage parlor?


you can give yo…

you can give your number out to girls….not guys.


Why I Can’t Wear Shorts T-Shirt

too beaucoup

bringing home

primary: p
me: m

p: so how about if i bring a chick home for us.

p: im just giving you a heads up

m: thats fucked up

m: you want to bring her home for yourself

p: you would fuck her with the strap on while she gave me head. ram her head…..

m: so what do you think if i brought a guy home for us

p: he would be for you. can i fuck him

m: ew gross. no. wait. yes.

p: okay. nope not doing it

m: so what if i dont like the chic

p: we send her packing. its a mutual thing

m: good answer

although our conversations may be sexist, pigish, he always lets me make the last decision.


okay if you are in a nail salon with your girlfriend, telling me that you want to read my blog and it was you that responded to it after i told you it was about sex, and you respond by saying just you and me and not her. eh….maybe you will be thrown overboard on that cruise you are taking her. or wait is she taking you. 

so this ignorant man continues to tell me that if a normal couple with the openness and transparency (and its just them two in the relationship) one of them would cheat. just like if they were swingers, whose to say they won’t cheat either.

of course i like to try to defend or back up what I’m talking about in the swinger lifestyle and he said that whose to say the other person isn’t swinging in a swinging relationship. 

of course i ended the conversation by giving him a nose wax. 

Im a huge flirt…

Im a huge flirt even when i was younger, if it wasn’t for polyamory, i would be a cheater


any good sex books?

I came across “the ethical slut” while having lunch with a classmate. She let our other friend borrow it. I also want to read “Perv: the sexual deviant in all of us” by Jesse Bering.

Any one have any suggestions on non fiction sex books?

the double standard but jealous

so I have been approached with different scenarios from various classmates in the kink lifestyle.

the double standard

girl has an admirer and she is interested in him but also has a primary

her primary said its okay for her to go out and “date” the guy and hook up and primary does not need to be there

she on the other hand, wants to be there when her primary is in the similar situation

she says that since primary is ok with her going out and he doesnt want to be there that she will be more comfortable or it is justifying for her to do it.

however, she would want to be with him or have the ability to show up on his date at any moment.

so as curious as i am, i ask my primary…
will you be okay with me playing or dating someone outside of our home without you.

hahah primary response was no. he would be jealous.

my response would be the same.

so how does this fall into swinging. what difference does it make if you are trying to get to know the guy or the couple and then not try to get jealous?

why is it better for both to do it and not one?

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