you can give yo…

you can give your number out to girls….not guys.



Why I Can’t Wear Shorts T-Shirt

too beaucoup

bringing home

primary: p
me: m

p: so how about if i bring a chick home for us.

p: im just giving you a heads up

m: thats fucked up

m: you want to bring her home for yourself

p: you would fuck her with the strap on while she gave me head. ram her head…..

m: so what do you think if i brought a guy home for us

p: he would be for you. can i fuck him

m: ew gross. no. wait. yes.

p: okay. nope not doing it

m: so what if i dont like the chic

p: we send her packing. its a mutual thing

m: good answer

although our conversations may be sexist, pigish, he always lets me make the last decision.


okay if you are in a nail salon with your girlfriend, telling me that you want to read my blog and it was you that responded to it after i told you it was about sex, and you respond by saying just you and me and not her. eh….maybe you will be thrown overboard on that cruise you are taking her. or wait is she taking you. 

so this ignorant man continues to tell me that if a normal couple with the openness and transparency (and its just them two in the relationship) one of them would cheat. just like if they were swingers, whose to say they won’t cheat either.

of course i like to try to defend or back up what I’m talking about in the swinger lifestyle and he said that whose to say the other person isn’t swinging in a swinging relationship. 

of course i ended the conversation by giving him a nose wax. 

Im a huge flirt…

Im a huge flirt even when i was younger, if it wasn’t for polyamory, i would be a cheater


any good sex books?

I came across “the ethical slut” while having lunch with a classmate. She let our other friend borrow it. I also want to read “Perv: the sexual deviant in all of us” by Jesse Bering.

Any one have any suggestions on non fiction sex books?

the double standard but jealous

so I have been approached with different scenarios from various classmates in the kink lifestyle.

the double standard

girl has an admirer and she is interested in him but also has a primary

her primary said its okay for her to go out and “date” the guy and hook up and primary does not need to be there

she on the other hand, wants to be there when her primary is in the similar situation

she says that since primary is ok with her going out and he doesnt want to be there that she will be more comfortable or it is justifying for her to do it.

however, she would want to be with him or have the ability to show up on his date at any moment.

so as curious as i am, i ask my primary…
will you be okay with me playing or dating someone outside of our home without you.

hahah primary response was no. he would be jealous.

my response would be the same.

so how does this fall into swinging. what difference does it make if you are trying to get to know the guy or the couple and then not try to get jealous?

why is it better for both to do it and not one?

Bored? Genghis Khan Syndrome

Drying out has been an issue.
So I asked primary if he was bored with our sex life.

Primary has said I’m just a whore I like fucking other women.
He said it sounds bad when he writes it down.
He said its the genghis khan syndrome.

Should I be upset or mad at him. Nope! Secretly I like different too. There are some things you can do with one person that likes it and another might not. Different people for different uses.

He justifies his wanting different partners by saying,

I just like to be whorish sexually.

So if a women says that what’s up with that?

My girlfriend has a girlfriend

I am every mans fantasy. 1. I’m asian 2. I think I’m into girls. More so bi or a pillow princess.

My first time with a chick and primary.

Chick met primary before me on Pof. She was older and wanted to meet more friends since she was relocating to jax.

She parties with us a few times. Has her nipples pierced. (I have this thing for pierced nipples). I haven’t gotten mine done yet. I have nice ones. I’m afraid they will sag.

She is a sub. I want to dom her. Fuck her with the strap on. She said she loves giving head. I want her to give primary a bj. I want her to deep throat it.

We are dancing. Primary offers the room to her and I. Tells us to go in the room anytime to play. Either way with or without him, it’s okay. He’s ok. Cus his gf is getting down with a girl.

She offers to let me play with them. I sucked them and. Caressed them. Just like any man would do. I like the sensual touch and feel of a women. Granted she is like ten years older. Leather like. Knows that she had a tough time with the sun, motorcycle, and hard core drugs.

We go in the room. She talks and talks clearly is not over a guy who is with someone else . Three hours later we get down to business. She sweats like a melted ice cube. Very gross.

She fucks me with the strap on like a dude. Eats the pussy really well. She deep throats him like it’s no bodies business.

Primary only gets head. He watches more than doing anything.

I fuck her doggy style with the strap on. There is a vagina smell? not fishy but smelly. I am mentally consume with grossness.

Hahaha after the fact, primary was not into her. At all.

Wtf! Note to both of us. More communication. Not to play if the other doesn’t like.

Leather thinks we regret it. It was good but something you do just once to see. Lol and never do it again.

She bribes us to play again.

I ignore her request.


I think the efforts of finding and meeting other couples is just like finding someone to date. I know I don’t like the ones who are pushy and want to meet right away. Meeting is fine but let me text and talk to you to get to know you more……

Is it normal that my first impression of a couple will hinder me from liking them enough for us to bump uglies? Lol

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